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[Popular Science] What should I do if my baby can't adapt to the kindergarten because he can't sleep, has a slow heat, and holds the bowels?

Posting time:2023-01-28 05:03:17

[Popular Science] What should I do if my baby can't adapt to the kindergarten because he can't sleep, has a slow heat, and holds the bowels?

It has been a while since the kindergarten started, and the "symphony" in the classroom has stopped a lot every day, but other problems have appeared again. When Tongtong (pseudonym) usually sleeps at home, she has to hug her little quilt to fall asleep. Mom and Dad thought this was a "bad problem" and didn't let Tongtong take the quilt to kindergarten. As a result, Tongtong couldn't sleep, and she often rubbed the quilt with her legs crossed, resulting in "leg rubbing syndrome". There is also Liangliang (pseudonym), two weeks after entering the kindergarten, his appetite decreased, his stool became hard, and he often cried out of stomach pain. Teacher, always holding back, abruptly dragged into constipation. There is also Duo Duo (pseudonym) who also has a difficult situation. He is usually good at talking at home, but he is more autistic in school and is afraid of communicating. He doesn't even answer when the teacher calls his name. Zhan Jianying, chief physician of the Children's Health Department of Hangzhou Women's Hospital, said: "It is difficult for children to adapt to the new environment, and they are not only crying, but also sleep, defecation and other problems. Parents also need to pay attention in time." How to solve it? Let's take a look~

Should I quit the sleep "soothing"?

mishandling can lead to bigger problems

When the child's psychological needs are not met, another Ways to ease their emotions, such as the "rubbing leg syndrome" that appeared in Tongtong. Forcing the child to abandon the comforter will lead to a stronger anxiety response, and if there is no timely intervention, it will affect her future personality development. Zhan Jianying's tips 1. Allowing children to bring comforting objects to a certain extent, comforting objects can satisfy children's emotional needs and fill the void in their inner security, which is not a bad thing. 2. Set the corresponding rules. Communicate with the child the rules of the comforter with a calm attitude. For example, the mother should clean the comforter regularly. When cleaning, you can temporarily replace it with other items of the same style. 3. Explore the deep-seated reasons. For children who need to be comforted for a long time, there may be insufficient family care and poor communication. It is necessary to seek the help of professionals related to child development and mental health, such as the child health doctor of Hangzhou Women’s Hospital. . Dr. Zhan Jianying is explaining the knowledge

What should I do if I don't want to go to the toilet in the kindergarten?

Gentle and patient guidance is the key

Everyone knows that "people have three urgent needs", and children are suffocating in kindergarten Defecation is definitely uncomfortable, and parents should guide their children to express their needs bravely. Zhan Jianying's tips 1. Familiarize yourself with the kindergarten environment and teachers and parents in advance. It is best for parents to bring their children to familiarize themselves with the teachers and kindergarten environment in advance, so that children can have an adaptation process for defecation in the new environment. 2. Consciously train
  • When the baby is 18 months old, there is a situation of actively expressing the consciousness of defecation, helping the baby to go to the toilet, and learning to use the toilet and other appliances.
  • Master your child's bowel movements, and gradually schedule bowel movements. If you can arrange bowel movements in the morning or evening, you will not easily face the problem of school adaptation.
  • For babies with irregular bowel movements, strengthen communication with school teachers, seek support from teachers, and encourage babies to express their need for bowel and bladder bravely.
3. Accept and understand that the child needs to understand the reason why the baby is reluctant to defecate at school. Don't blame the child for holding up the stool. You can try to guide him gently and patiently. At the same time, communicate with the kindergarten teacher to help Babies adapt better to group life. For unrelieved constipation, seek medical help in time. Hangzhou Women's Hospital Children's Health Department

The "Invisible Man" in kindergarten

What should I do if my child is too introverted and slow?

There are many types of children's temperament: easy to raise, difficult to raise, slow-heat type, and intermediate type. There is no good or bad temperament. The most important thing is that parents can understand children's differences, teach students according to their aptitude, find appropriate coping methods, fully understand and care, and each child can develop his potential. Zhan Jianying's tips 1. Avoid putting negative labels on children "your child is too timid". Parents can retort this kind of labeling behavior: "My children have a strong sense of risk, and they will get used to it in a little more time." 2. Look at problems with positive thinking and try to avoid saying things like "timid", "slow reaction" and "did you cry again when you go to kindergarten" in front of your child. Instead, you should use positive words. "I think", "thinking", "are you happy in kindergarten today", etc., so that the child will get better and better and adapt to the kindergarten faster. 3. Understand the children's psychological activities, and guide them step by step. For example, tell the baby that those who go to kindergarten are grown up children, and what the big brothers and sisters in them will do, so as to create a fun and interesting positive impression for them. "Parents are a little uneasy about their children's first kindergarten, and we understand that. But as parents, we must learn to let go and avoid putting ourselves in anxiety and worry, which will make children anxious." Zhan Jianying said. At the same time, Zhan Jianying also reminded: "Most children can gradually adapt to kindergarten life in two to three weeks. If they can't adapt for a long time and have problems such as sleep disorders, loss of appetite, weight loss, etc., they must come to the hospital in time and seek professional help. Doctor's help." Medical Review丨Editor/Producer Zhan Jianying | Health Business Development Department

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